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But, if you know certain things going into a relationship with a musician, it can make you better prepared to weather the panties thrown on stage, the misery they’ll feel when only three people are in the crowd, and the hours on end they’ll need to themselves to hone their art.
Being a Supportive Girlfriend Developing the Relationship Taking Care of Yourself Community Q&A Dating a musician, regardless of gender, is not always easy.
Don’t try to be the “manager”, do not get involved with band business, that is for the band.
Do Not complain when your (insert holiday here) date gets cancelled because a show has been scheduled. They are the one’s buying the CDs and merch, not you, so let them have their time. Like your going to sleep in the back of a van and eat ramen for 4 months straight!?
When he's away on tour, you'll start having paranoid dreams that he has a whole other tour girlfriend on the side...
...leaving you always wondering if those lyrics supposedly about you are about you.
And he'll selectively ensure you're not in any of the shots on his profile so as not to disillusion the dedicated female proportion of those followers: The female groupies will find your Instagram anyway, and troll you with with jealous comments (“this is her”). You’re lucky he is using the quarter to call you, instead of buying gas or food. Never say anything negative about your man’s band that you cannot say to him. Don’t follow him around at shows like a lost puppy, he is taking care of business, find your own crowd. Going from preppy to Nu to hardcore shows you are not your own individual. If he calls while out on the road, don’t complain about when he is coming home. If you’re a stripper, keep work on the pole, not at shows. Relationship problems can be dealt with after the show. If they have a show out of town, don’t drive just so you and your boy can have “alone time”. You'll probably be around the band enough to know backstage life isn’t the R-rated Gucci Mane video clip you first thought, and mostly just a lot of standing around...there will still always be beautiful girls standing around backstage, making you feel insecure.
Or maybe your better half is a musician and you need to be more understanding. They find emotional releases in writing melodies, they turn their personal lives into song lyrics, and they have to try to make relationships work despite groupie onslaughts and the airing out of their dirty laundry on stage.